There are transitions and phases and changes we go through be it single or in a relationship. It takes work. And the thing that takes work is to try and be happy with yourself, to like yourself through it all , through the ups and downs and the roundabouts and still try to maintain some sort of sanity and try to keep some sort of love in your heart. So that you don’t shut down because it’s so easy to shut down and say I’m not dealing with this anymore and I don’t want to be hurt. I don’t want to go through this anymore.
If you can live with yourself and you’re happy, content at least like yourself. When you wake up in the morning you have to look at you and everyone knows in their hearts when they are right and wrong and when they really have to get a hold of themselves and when you can deal with your wrongs and say, yea I know I Fucked up. You’re being true you can like yourself; you can overcome things and make it to the next day.